Chapter One Hundred Four – Meet the
Damasiewicz’
Joey woke up in Tyler’s arms. It felt good to be held by someone who loved
him, after so many months of sleeping alone.
After spending the night with Tyler, Joey didn’t want Tyler to leave him
again. Tyler made him feel so alive,
and most of all, happy! Joey wanted to
join Tyler in Spain; but he just couldn’t see how it was going to work out,
despite Tyler’s reassurances that where there’s a will, there’s a way. Maybe he was just being too paranoid about
losing custody of his girls. He had
heard of more than one horror story about judges awarding sole custody to the
mother without regard to the father’s parental rights, especially when the
father is gay.
He looked into his lover’s face and couldn’t
help thinking how wonderful Tyler was.
From the very beginning of their relationship, Tyler had always been
concerned about Joey, and did everything possible to make him happy. Tyler was so unselfish and loving. Just being with Tyler made him happy! Last night, Tyler had told him his goal was
to make Joey forget his sorrows and be happy.
Thinking about being happy, Joey wanted in the worst way to make Tyler
happy by going with him to Spain.
He thought about how different Tyler was
than Kathy. Not just the anatomical
differences, but the personality traits.
Where Tyler had a sunny disposition, Kathy was so negative and
pessimistic. With Kathy, it had always
been about her and her happiness. He
hadn’t realized how self-centered she was, until he met Tyler. He couldn’t remember a single time Kathy had
done something to make him happy. He
knew his bitterness toward her was coloring his memories of her; however, he
also knew Kathy expected everyone to be concerned about her and her needs. She rarely did anything that didn’t benefit
herself.
Joey had been blinded by her beautiful
face, and her determination to marry him.
He had been flattered such a beautiful girl would want to marry a
country guy like him. His mother had
tried to warn him Kathy wasn’t good for him; but he hadn’t listened. He had ignored the warning signs things
weren’t going well, such fighting constantly over little things. Nothing he did was ever good enough for
her.
Joey’s ruminations were interrupted, as Tyler
stirred and awoke. He looked into
Joey’s eyes and smiled. Joey loved how
Tyler’s whole face shone, when he smiled.
Joey couldn’t help feeling Tyler was the sun that nourished him and kept
him warm. He kissed Tyler and said,
“Good morning, Mr. Sunshine.”
Tyler grinned. “I like it when you call me that. It makes me feel special.”
“That’s because you are special;
particularly to me,” Joey said, caressing Tyler’s cheek with his
fingertips. He liked the rough feel of
Tyler’s whiskers. As he looked deeply
into Tyler’s eyes, he decided he was going to make Tyler happy. “I’m going with you to Spain.”
Tyler grinned, and said, “I knew you
would choose to go to Spain with me.”
Joey raised his eyebrows and asked, “How
could you be so certain?”
“I knew you would move to Spain with me
because you love me,” Tyler said, simply.
“I do love you; but I didn’t even know
myself I was going, until a few minutes ago,” he said.
Tyler rubbed noses with Joey and said, “I
asked my Dad if I should ask you to move to Spain; and he said if you loved me,
you would move to Spain with me. I told
him I knew you loved me very much. So I
asked you, and you said yes.”
Tyler’s love and child-like trust shone
in his eyes. His innocence and his faith
in Joey’s love for him made Joey resolve to never do anything to ever hurt, or
damage Tyler in any way.
Tyler asked, “What are you thinking
about?”
“I was just thinking how lucky I am to
have met you. You are the best thing
that has ever happened to me,” Joey said.
He kissed Tyler gently on the
lips, then whispered in his ear, “I love you.”
“I love you,” Tyler responded, his
fingertips caressing Joey’s cheek.
Joey asked, “When do I get to meet your
parents?”
“Tonight,” Tyler said, smiling. “Mom is making us dinner, and we’ll be
spending the night at my house.”
Joey’s eyes went wide with
surprise. “Do you mean to say, they
agreed to let me sleep with you in your room, or do I have to sleep in a
separate bed?”
Tyler laughed. “They already know we’re lovers. I made it very clear we’re together in every
way.”
Joey shook his head in disbelief. “It seems like a miracle to me, Tyler. I never thought they would be so accepting
of us.”
“I didn’t either,” Tyler said. “Dad is really cool about it; but Mom
insists she still has to approve of my choice of a life partner.”
“Do you think she will approve of me?”
Joey asked, giving Tyler a worried look.
“I know some people don’t approve of second marriages. They don’t want to inherit someone else’s
problems or deal with custody battles and child support.”
Tyler looked thoughtful, as he answered
Joey. “I haven’t told them you are
still married. It might not be a good
idea to tell them your divorce isn’t final.”
“How can they help me win custody of my
girls, if they don’t know I’m in the middle of a divorce?” Joey asked.
“Good point,” Tyler admitted. “I guess we’ll just have to tell them
everything and hope it all works out for the best.”
They heard a knock on their door, and
Joey called out, “Come in!”
Greg and Cory entered the room. Greg smiled and said, “It’s about time you
two were awake!”
“We needed our beauty sleep,” Tyler
responded, with a grin.
“Yes, we know,” Cory said. “You kept us up all night with your moaning
and screaming!”
Tyler blushed, and asked, “We weren’t
that loud, were we?”
Greg nodded his head. “You were, but it’s okay. We had to tease you about it, though.”
Joey was also blushing. “I’m sorry, guys. I didn’t realize we were keeping you guys
awake.”
Cory laughed and said, “Don’t let us
give you such a hard time, Joey. You
know how loud Greg gets, when I fuck him!”
Joey nodded his head and said, “Yes, I
do remember how loud Greg gets when you’re pleasuring him!”
This time it was Greg’s turn to
blush. “Okay! I’ll stop teasing you!”
Joey laughed, and said, “I think this is
the first time I’ve seen you blush, Greg.”
Greg sat down on the foot of the bed,
meeting Joey’s gaze. “I hope it’s the
last time.”
Tyler looked at Cory and Greg, and
asked, “What are our plans for today?”
Cory replied, “We were going to ask you
the same thing.”
“Let’s go over to the recreation center
and work out,” Greg suggested.
Joey said, “I’m up for that, as long as
we go swimming afterwards.”
“I think that can be arranged,” Greg
said.
Cory said, “I’m okay with that as long
as you take me out on a date tonight.”
Greg pulled Cory onto his lap. He kissed him and said, “Of course, I’ll
take you on a date tonight.”
“We’re going out to dinner with my
parents, then we’ll stay at my house for the night,” Tyler said.
Greg said, “I’m glad your parents have
accepted you for who you are, Tyler.”
“Me, too,” Tyler agreed, as he leaned
over and kissed Joey.
Cory said, “We’ll leave you two to get dressed.” He stood up and turned around to give Greg a
hand up.
Greg said, “We’ll wait for you guys
downstairs.” They were holding hands as
they left the room, closing the door behind them.
Tyler watched the two younger guys leave
their room. “I really have to admire
those two.”
Joey said, “I know what you mean. They have bounced back from the horrible
injuries, my soon to be ex-father-in-law, inflicted on them.”
“I agree with you about that part. I’m not sure how I would have handled being
beat to a pulp by my father, because he found out I was gay. However, what I really admire about them is
how they treat each other. You can tell
how much they love each other,” Tyler said.
Joey looked into Tyler’s eyes and said,
“I promise you I’ll work hard to make sure we have the same kind of
relationship.”
Tyler said, “We already do.” Tyler kissed Joey, then said, “We need to
get up.”
They showered and dressed for the
gym. They made their way downstairs to
the kitchen. Darla and Ray were seated
at the table with Cory and Greg. Darla
smiled at them, and said, “Please have a seat.
There’s plenty of food.”
They took a seat at the table and served
themselves. Cory said, “Thanks,
Mom. The food is delicious.”
Darla said, “You’re welcome son. I understand you have already made plans for
the day.”
Cory nodded his head and said, “Yes, we’re
going to the gym to work out on the weights, before we go swimming.”
“Then, we will be spending the rest of
the day with my parents,” Tyler said.
Greg said, “We’ll come back here for the
afternoon. I promised to take Cory out
on a date tonight; but we haven’t decided what we want to do, other than where
we want to eat.”
“There are a couple of new movies out,”
Darla said. “You could go see one of
them.”
Cory said, “We’ll have to see. I’m not sure I want to go to the movies.”
They finished eating breakfast, and
helped clear the table. Cory hugged his
mother, and gave her a kiss on the cheek.
“You’re the best, Mom.”
Darla smiled up at her son, “Thank you,
dear.”
Ray asked, “Don’t I get a hug and kiss?”
Cory laughed. “Yes, Dad, you get a hug and kiss, as well.”
He walked over to his dad, giving him a
hug and a kiss on the cheek.
Ray said, “Have a good time at the gym.”
“We will,” Greg said.
The four of them left the kitchen, and
grabbed their jackets, as they headed out the door. They drove to the recreation center and
parked. They paid their entry fee and
walked into the locker room to change.
They made their way into the weight room.
Greg was working on the bench press,
when he heard a voice say, “Well, if it isn’t the faggot who refused to
die.” Greg raised the weights to their
stand and sat up to see who was talking.
He looked up and saw Mark, a member of his former Boy Scout troop.
Greg frowned and said, “Hello,
Mark. It’s seems you haven’t changed
since I last saw you.”
“No, I still hate fags, like you. You should have died the day your father
beat you. It’s too bad your Dad’s in
jail for doing the right thing,” Mark said.
Cory walked over to stand by Greg.
“I see you still have your bitch with you.”
Cory put his hand on Greg arm, “Mark, I
think you’ve said enough.”
“No, I’m not finished. I think everyone here needs to know the kind
of sinners you are,” Mark said.
Joey looked over from where he was
lifting weights and saw Greg’s angry expression. He turned to Tyler and said, “I think we
need to stop whatever is going on over there.”
He nodded toward Greg and Cory.
Tyler said, “Okay, let’s go.”
The two men walked over to Greg and
Cory. Joey asked, “Is there a problem
here?”
Mark’s head snapped around at the sound
of Joey’s voice. “Yes, there is a
problem here. These two faggots need to
leave.”
Joey said, “It sounds like you are the
one with the problem. Do you need to be
escorted out of the building for harassing the patrons of this facility?”
Mark said, “You can’t touch me!”
“No, I can’t; but I can get the cops to
remove you,” Joey said.
Mark glared at Joey. “You can’t make me leave and I won’t
tolerate faggots working out in this gym.
They don’t belong here.”
Tyler said, “I think you’ve been warned
to stop your harassment of these gentlemen.”
Tyler stepped out in to the corridor and flagged down a security
guard. “Sir, we have a gentleman who
won’t stop harassing a couple of the patrons.
Would you mind escorting him out of the building?”
The security officer nodded his head. “I’ll have to give him a warning first; and
then if it continues, I’ll escort him off the property.”
Tyler and the security officer entered
the weight room. Mark was shouting
obscenities at Greg and Cory. The
security officer said, “Sir, if you don’t stop the cursing and swearing, you
will have to leave.”
Mark turned on the security officer and
swung a fist at him. The guard caught
his arm mid-swing and twisted Mark’s arm behind his back. He put Mark in handcuffs and said, “Come
with me, sir.” He escorted Mark out of
the room.
Tyler looked over at Greg and asked,
“Who was that?”
“That was Mark. He was in our Boy Scout troop,” Greg
answered.
“He certainly is prejudiced against
gays,” Tyler said, shaking his head in disbelief.
“Yes, he is; as are his parents. They attend the same church as my father,”
Greg said.
Cory said, “Mark’s parents are even
worse than he is. When Mark’s dad found
out we were gay, he said he would finish the job Greg’s dad started, and kill
us on sight, if we ever crossed his path.”
Joey said, “Mark and his parents are the
kind of people giving Christians a bad name.”
Greg said, “Yes they are; just like
Rick’s parents. Their brand of
Christianity is one of hatred and persecution.
They are the kind of people who would crucify Jesus Christ for
associating with sinners and tax collectors.
It really makes me wonder if they can be called Christians.”
Cory nodded his head in agreement. “There are too many people who subscribe to
religious creeds denying others their religious freedom; as well as breeding
intolerance and hate.”
Tyler said, “Let’s finish our work
out. I’m feeling the need to relieve some stress.”
Joey said, “I second that motion.”
They returned to their work out with
renewed determination. Greg,
particularly, hit the weights with a vengeance. Afterward, they went back to the locker room
and quickly showered off, before putting on their swim suits. When Greg and Cory walked out in their
Speedo’s, Joey whistled. “Wow! You guys look good!”
Greg grinned and said, “I’m glad to see
you know how to appreciate good looking guys when you see them.”
Joey said, “So am I. Otherwise, I never would have found Tyler.”
Tyler said, “That’s true, Babe.”
Cory said, “You guys look pretty good
yourselves.”
“Thanks,” Tyler responded with a wide
grin. “Let’s see how good you guys are
in the pool.”
They jumped in and raced each other
across the pool. Tyler beat them
soundly. Greg swam up alongside Tyler
and asked, “Where did you learn how to swim like that?”
“I’ve been on our local swim team since
I was 4 years old,” replied Tyler. “My
parents said I needed to learn to swim, because of all the bodies of water in
the area. I was also on my high school
swim and dive team.”
“No wonder you look so good,” Cory said.
Joey was the last one to catch up to
them. Tyler teased his lover, “I’m
going to have to teach you how to swim!”
Joey grinned and said, “As long as I get
one on one lessons!”
Tyler smiled. “I think I can arrange that.”
They continued swimming laps for a
while. They raced with Tyler a couple
of more times; but, he always beat them.
Tyler swam a few more laps, while Joey, Greg and Cory watched him from
the pool deck.
Greg said, “Joey, you sure picked a
looker for your life partner.”
Joey nodded his head and said, “I
know. He’s almost too good looking.”
Cory laughed. “There is no such thing as a guy who is too
good looking!”
“Particularly if he is engaged to be
married to you,” Greg said.
Joey smiled. “We only have a few more months to wait. Our year will be up at the end of April and
the divorce will be final. Tyler wants
to be married the day after I’m free of Kathy.”
“Where are you going to be married?”
Cory asked.
“We don’t know, yet. We have thought about getting married
somewhere in Canada,” Joey said.
“You could get married in Thunder Bay
like we did,” Greg said.
“Or you could get married in Vancouver,”
Cory said. “Glenn wants to be married
in St. Catharines when Rick gets out of the military.”
Tyler got out of the pool, and joined
the guys. “Are we ready to go?”
“Yes, I’m starving,” Greg said.
Tyler nodded his head in agreement. “I could go for some pasta, or something
with a lot of carbohydrates.”
The guys returned to the locker room to
shower and get dressed. As they walked
out to their cars, Joey suggested, “How about the Olive Garden?”
“Sounds good to me,” Tyler said. “That okay with you guys?”
“Yes, let’s go,” Greg said.
They jumped in their cars and Greg
followed Joey to the nearest Olive Garden restaurant. They enjoyed their lunch, then parted ways;
with Greg and Cory heading back to the Stetsons, and Tyler and Joey drove to
Tyler’s parents’ home.
Joey said, “Tyler, I’m really nervous
about meeting your parents.”
“Don’t be,” Tyler said. “I’m sure they will love you as much as I
do.”
Joey said, “But your Dad is retired from
the military. Won’t he disapprove of
me?”
“Joey, relax! Just ask Dad to tell you about his time
overseas and he’ll do all the talking,” Tyler said. He reached over and squeezed Joey’s leg. “Stop worrying.”
Tyler pulled into a townhome community,
and parked in front of an end unit. He
turned off the ignition, then turned to Joey.
“I love you, Joey.” He leaned
over and kissed him.
“I love you, too,” Joey said, as their
lips parted.
Tyler got out of the car and walked
around the car, taking Joey by the hand.
He led him up the front steps and into the townhouse. They walked down the stairs to the family
room. Tyler’s parents were seated on
the sofa. Tyler’s parents stood
up. Tyler said, “Mom and Dad, I want
you to meet my fiancé, Joey Malone.”
“It’s nice to meet you, Mr. and Mrs.
Damasiewicz,” Joey said, reaching out to shake their hands.
“It’s nice to meet you, Joey. Please call us Harry and Louise, or even
better, just call us Mom and Dad,” Harry said.
“Okay, Mom and Dad,” Joey said,
smiling. He was still a little nervous,
despite their welcoming expressions.
Louise said, “Please sit down. We are very happy Tyler brought you home to
meet us.”
Tyler and Joey sat down together on the
loveseat, as Tyler’s parents returned to their places on the sofa. Harry smiled and said, “Please be at ease,
Joey. When Tyler announced to us he was
gay and engaged to be married, we weren’t surprised. We’ve known Tyler was gay since he was a
toddler.”
Joey looked over at Tyler in
surprise. “Have you always known you
were gay?”
Tyler nodded his head. “Yes, but I didn’t dare tell anyone.”
Louise said, “Tyler’s interest in boys
sometimes caused him trouble; but, luckily for him, we moved around a lot. It meant he was able to start over in a new
school every couple of years.”
“It kept me from being bullied all the
time,” Tyler said.
“I found his first love note in his room,
when he was in the 1st grade,” Louise said. “It was written to a boy named Billy.”
Tyler blushed. He protested, “Mom!”
Louise smiled at her son. “I get to tell Joey all about you. I’ve waited a long time for you to decide to
finally acknowledge to us you’re gay; and to find yourself a life partner.”
“But, you don’t have to embarrass me,”
Tyler continued to protest.
Joey relaxed as he realized Tyler’s
parents did, indeed, accept their son’s sexuality. “Tyler, let your Mom tell me about you. I want to know all about your childhood and
what you did in high school.”
“But I’ve already told you about those
things,” Tyler said.
“But he hasn’t heard my point of view,”
Louise said. “I have photos of you I
want to share with Joey.”
Tyler groaned. “No, Mom.”
Louise stood up and walked over to
retrieve a photo album off the bookshelf.
She opened it and showed Joey a photo of Tyler.
The caption under the photo read, “Tyler
– age 18 months wearing a tutu.”
Tyler hid his face in Joey’s
shoulder. “I can’t believe you’re doing
this to me.”
Joey took Tyler’s hand in his, and said,
“Tyler, it’s okay. I think it’s cute.”
Louise said, “Our neighbor taught ballet,
and she had three little girls. Tyler
loved to play with them. He insisted he
had to be a ballerina, just like them when they were practicing their ballet
moves with their mother. She snapped
this photo one day, when they were dancing.
I’ve always loved this photo of my boy.”
“When Louise showed the photo to me, I
wasn’t sure whether to laugh, or cry,” Harry said. “I thought it was very cute, and I loved the
photo because Tyler is so cute; however, I knew then, Tyler was gay. Louise and I talked about it and decided we
would always be there to support Tyler and to love him for who he is rather
than to try to change him.”
Tyler said, “You never told me
that. I have always been so embarrassed
by this photo.”
Louise looked at her son. “I know you don’t like it, and I’ve had to
hide it to keep you from destroying it.”
Joey said, “I think it’s a cute photo of
you, Babe.” He leaned over and gave
Tyler a quick kiss.”
Tyler looked up to see his mother’s
reaction to Joey’s kiss. He still
wasn’t really sure they meant it when they said they accepted him as a gay
man. Louise was smiling and she laughed,
when she saw Tyler’s worried expression.
“Tyler, when are you going to believe
us? We really do support you and love
you as the handsome gay man you are,” Louise said, ruffling his hair. She left the photo album in Joey’s hands,
and returned to sit next to Harry on the sofa.
Tyler looked sheepish and said, “I guess
I’m still in shock. I fully expected
you to reject me like the parents of so many of my gay friends. Almost all of them have horror stories to
tell about the nasty things that have happened to them. I just feel so blessed.”
Harry said, “You should know us better
than that, Tyler. We have always been
very careful not to say anything negative about gays, and have encouraged you
to treat everyone with respect. Your
grandfather taught me everyone is worthy of respect, until they prove
otherwise.”
“But he was treated so poorly when he
came to this country from Poland,” Tyler said.
“True; however, he didn’t let the
actions of others determine how he would treat other people. He taught me to think for myself, and never
let others dictate to me what I was to do or say,” Harry said.
Joey said, “Tyler, you are extremely
fortunate your parents love you so unconditionally. I haven’t told my family I’m gay. I’m afraid they would try to kill me.”
Harry gave Joey a shocked look. “I can’t believe anyone would be so evil as
to turn on their own child.”
“I’m afraid they belong to a Christian
church that advocates murdering gays.
My soon to be ex-wife and her family belong to a Christian church here
that advocates the same kind of violence against gays. In fact, it hasn’t even been a year yet;
since my soon to be ex-father-in-law nearly succeeded in murdering his own son
and his boyfriend. He’s in jail for
attempted murder.”
“I remember reading about it in the
newspaper,” Louise said.
Harry still had a shocked look on his
face; however, this time it was because of the news Joey was married. “Joey, do you mean to tell me you’re
married?”
“Yes, I’m married. When my father-in-law tried to kill his son
and his boyfriend, my wife went totally crazy with hatred toward gays. We filed for divorce shortly after that. Our divorce will be final in April. I have two little girls; Rachel is two and
Sarah who is almost a year old.”
“Joey wants sole custody of the girls;
but until I’m finished with school, we will try to set up an arrangement where
the girls will visit us during the summer,” Tyler said.
Harry said, “When do you plan to be
married?”
“We want to be married the day after
Joey’s divorce is final,” Tyler said.
“Where are you going to be married?”
Louise asked.
“We haven’t decided,” Tyler said.
“We’ve thought about going to
Canada. My brother-in-law, Greg,
married his boyfriend in Thunder Bay a few months ago. Greg wants us to go there. Greg and his husband are going to school in
Minneapolis,” Joey said.
“Where will you live after you’re
married?” Louise asked.
Tyler said, “Joey will live with me in
Spain. He’s going to fly out with me
next week, and we’ll come back for the court date in April.”
“What about your girls, Joey?” Louise
asked.
“They will live with me every
summer. Until Tyler finishes school,
that means they will come to live with us in Spain; and after that, Chile,”
Joey said.
“Has your wife agreed to that
arrangement?” Harry asked.
Joey shook his head. “No, we haven’t proposed anything to her
lawyer, yet. I didn’t decide to go with
Tyler to Spain, until this morning.
Right now, we have joint custody.
The girls spend every other weekend with me.”
Louise smiled and said, “I’m glad Tyler
found you, Joey. We thought we would
never have grandchildren. Since you already
have two children means we’ll inherit two granddaughters, when you get
married.”
Harry asked, “When do we get to meet our
future granddaughters?”
Joey replied, “I will have the girls
this coming weekend.”
“You will have to bring them over to
meet us. I want to begin spoiling them as soon as
possible,” Harry said. Seeing Tyler’s
expression of astonishment, Harry said, “What’s wrong with wanting to spoil my
granddaughters?”
Tyler said, “Nothing is wrong with it,
Dad. I’m just still so amazed you and
Mom are so incredibly wonderful. I
never dreamed you would be so happy for me.”
“We are happy you found a wonderful man
to be your husband. I’m sure he will
treat you right,” Louise said.
Joey’s head was reeling. He was just as overwhelmed as Tyler at the
acceptance he saw in the faces of his future in-laws. They were genuinely happy for their son, and
were very excited to become step-grandparents to his daughters. He was feeling exhilarated by the happiness
he felt; because he and Tyler would be able to start out their marriage with
the love and support of Tyler’s family.
Louise said, “Tyler, show Joey the rest
of those photos, while I go upstairs to finish dinner.”
Tyler replied, “Yes, Mom.”
She laughed. “That’s much better.” She climbed the stairs to the kitchen,
leaving the guys to look at Tyler’s photos.
Joey pointed to a photograph of Tyler
wearing his Speedo swimsuit. “How old
were you in this photo?”
“I was 12 years old. I was getting ready to race, when that photo
was taken,” Tyler said.
Joey put his arm around Tyler’s
waist. “You were pretty well endowed
for a boy your age.”
Tyler laughed, “I’m still that way.”
Harry smiled and said, “Too much
information for me. I’ll leave you guys
to yourselves.” He stood up and climbed
the stairs to join his wife.
Tyler laughed and said, “I guess Dad
wasn’t ready to hear that.”
“No, he wasn’t,” Joey replied, giving
Tyler a lecherous grin. “I want to see
all of your swim team photos.”
Tyler gave Joey a jab in his ribs. “You only want to lust after my younger
self!”
“Yes and no,” Joey responded. “Yes, I want to see you in your cute little
Speedos; but I also want to know all about you. You can’t just breeze through the photos and
not tell me when it was taken and why.”
They continued looking through Tyler’s
old photos, until dinner time. Louise
called down the stairs, “Dinner’s ready boys!”
Tyler responded, “We’ll be right up!”
He closed the photo album and set it on
the floor, next to the other 6 photo albums they had gone through. He stood up and said, “Dad built a special
case for all of my swim trophies.” He
took Joey’s hand and pulled him to his feet.
Joey took advantage of being so close to
his lover and pulled him into his embrace.
He looked deeply into Tyler’s eyes and said, “Thank you for sharing your
life with me.” He kissed Tyler. It started out as a gentle, chaste kiss;
meant to show his love for Tyler. It
quickly turned into a much more passionate one, as Joey responded to Tyler’s
caresses. When they came up for air,
Joey said, “You sure know how to take my breath away.”
Tyler smiled, happily, and said, “It’s
my pleasure.” Tyler took Joey by the
hand and led him down the hallway from the family room, and opened the door to
the study.
Joey entered and gasped. “Wow!
It’s like your parents have built a shrine to you.”
All four walls were lined with glass
cases displaying the vast array of trophies and awards Tyler had won over the
years. Behind each of them was a photo
of Tyler, and a write up about the trophy and Tyler’s triumph. Joey walked around the room, going from one
display case to the next. There were
many newspaper articles and other paraphernalia from the many swim meets and
competitions Tyler had participated in.
There were photos of his high school swim and dive team. Joey finally turned to Tyler, and said,
“This is simply amazing! When you said
you loved to swim, you really meant it!”
Tyler laughed and responded, “I told you
and you didn’t believe me.”
Joey shook his head in wonder. He
knew Tyler was a wonderful person and a great guy to be around; but this really
opened his eyes to another dimension of Tyler’s life.
Louise called down the stairs, again,
“Boys, did you forget dinner is ready?”
Tyler said, “We had better go before Mom
comes down and hauls us up the stairs by our ears.”
Joey nodded and said, “Thank you for
showing me this room.”
Tyler smiled and said, “You’re welcome,
Babe.” He followed Joey out of the room
and closed the door behind him. They
climbed the stairs and entered the dining room. They took seats on opposite sides of the
table, with Tyler’s parents sitting on both ends.
Harry said, “I’ll say grace.” They held hands around the table and
listened as Harry prayed.
Afterward, Louise said, “I hope you like
roast beef.”
Joey said, “I love roast beef with
mashed potatoes and gravy.”
“Well, there is plenty of both,” Louise
said.
The meal was simple, but very
delicious. Joey and Tyler helped clear
the table and did the dishes. Tyler
washed, while Joey dried them. Joey
said, “I never thought I would like doing dishes; but I could get used to
helping you do them.” He came up behind
Tyler and wrapped his arms around his waist.
He leaned down and nipped gently at Tyler’s neck.
Tyler leaned back against Joey’s
chest. He suppressed a moan of
pleasure, remembering his parents were sitting in the adjoining room. “You had better stop that, or we will really
embarrass my parents; because I won’t be able to control myself,” Tyler said.
Joey nibbled on Tyler’s ear and
whispered, “I love you.”
Hearing those words sent a thrill
through Tyler’s body. He said, “I love
you, too. Now, dry these off and we’ll
put everything away.” He handed Joey a
couple of plates.
Joey obediently dried them off and
placed them on the counter. They made
quick work of putting things away.
Tyler said, “I want you to see my room.”
Tyler led Joey out of the kitchen, and up the stairs to the top level of
the townhome. He opened the door to his
room.
Joey entered and whistled. “I like your posters.”
Tyler grinned. He had huge posters of his favorite swim
stars, all men, of course. Every one of
them was a gay guy’s wet dream. “I thought
you might like my room. All I need to
make it complete is a poster of you in your swimsuit.”
“Can we make it one in my birthday
suit?” Joey said, mischievously.
“No, but you can show me your birthday
suit in person,” Tyler said. He closed
the bedroom door and locked it. He
walked over to Joey and put his arms around his lover and kissed him. There was, indeed, a hands-on viewing of
Joey’s birthday suit!
*** ***
During the time since we had left the
farm, Mom had filed the divorce papers and had them delivered to my
father. She stayed at Uncle Dave and
Aunt Mary’s house, until she could move into her new apartment. The rest of my siblings had stopped in to
see Mom at one time or another over the span of the two days after she left my
Dad.
When my older brothers arrived at Uncle
Dave and Aunt Mary’s house, they greeted my mother with a hug and a kiss. Mom and Aunt Mary were in the kitchen, when Gary
and Eric confronted us about our role in our parent’s breakup.
Gary stood up and glared around the room
at Shawn, Randy, Rick and I and said, “It’s your fault our parents have split
up.” I could see he was barely managing
to contain his anger.
Eric added, “If you hadn’t made such a
big deal about Dad’s attempts to get you to go straight, Mom would have stayed
with Dad.”
“I don’t think that’s true,” Randy
said. “You haven’t talked to Mom. You’ve only heard Dad’s side of the
story. He’s blaming us for his own
problems.”
Gary blew up! “How can you sit there and put the blame on
Dad? What harm was Dad doing to you?”
“He was trying break up my marriage,
Gary. Think about it, Gary. If he tried to get Jessica to leave you,
would you stand by and let her leave you, or would you tell him to stay out of
your relationship?”
Gary said, “I wouldn’t stand for it; but
it doesn’t change the fact you dragged Mom into it.”
Mom walked into the front room, and
said, “Gary, sit down, please.”
Gary turned around, and looked at
Mom. “Why should I?”
“Because I’m your mother, that’s
why. I need you to sit down and I will
tell you why I left your Dad,” she said.
She explained all the factors leading to her decision. As she narrated the many things she had
endured, Gary and Eric hung their heads in shame. “So, you see Randy and Glenn were not the
reason I decided to leave your father.”
Eric said, “I’m sorry, Mom.”
Gary said, “We have been so wrapped up
in our own lives; we never noticed how poorly Dad treated you. Jessica mentioned things to me she felt
weren’t right; but, I just shrugged it off.
I’m sorry I never said anything to Dad about it.”
“He
wouldn’t have listened to you, Gary. He
won’t listen to anyone. That is why I
had to leave him. He won’t change,” she
said. She looked around the room at all
of us and said, “I want you to continue to love and respect your father. Just because I have left him, doesn’t mean you
get to treat him poorly. I won’t have
you being disrespectful to him; any more than I will tolerate you treating me
that way.”
Gary looked over at us and said, “I’m
sorry I blamed you for Dad’s problems.
Can you guys forgive me?”
Randy said, “Yes, but don’t expect us to show
up at the farm any time soon.”
Gary said, “I understand.”
Eric said, “I’m sorry, too. I believed everything Dad told us. I didn’t think about all of the other things
going on between Mom and Dad.”
Randy said, “Just remember this is the
second time I’ve been subjected to Dad’s prejudice against gays.”
Eric met Randy’s gaze, and said, “I
remember.”
“We all have suffered, because of your
Dad’s inability to deal with reality,” Mom said.
*** ***
We celebrated the New Year with Uncle
Dave and Aunt Mary. It was a muted
affair, and we went to bed shortly after ringing in the New Year. The next day, we helped Mom get settled into
her new apartment. Randy and I enjoyed
helping her decorate her apartment. The
day before we left for Toronto, Mom invited everyone over for lunch. After we ate, we sat in her front room to
visit, and discuss the events of the last week. Mom sat across from us. She had a bright smile on her face; but it
didn’t reach her eyes. I could tell she
was really sad. This wasn’t what she
wanted, I could tell. As I watched her
talking to Uncle Dave and Aunt Mary, the reality of what was happening between
my parents was just starting to sink in.
Uncle Dave said, “This is a nice
apartment, Eva. It’s close enough to
our place we can walk over any time we want to visit.”
Mom smiled, “I hope you’ll come
often. I just can’t imagine being here
all alone day in and day out.”
“When will you and Don begin the
mediation sessions?” Aunt Mary asked.
“I don’t know. I’m not even sure Don will show up,” Mom
responded.
Uncle Dave’s expression changed to one
of anger. “Don’t you worry about that,
Eva. Don will be there.”
Mom smiled, and said, “I know he will if
you have anything to do with it.”
“You’ve got that right,” Uncle Dave
said. “I love my brother very much; but
I also know his weaknesses.”
Mom nodded her head, and said, “As do
I.”
Randy asked, “Do you need us to move to
Swift Current to help you, Mom?”
Mom’s smile reached her eyes this
time. “No, son, I don’t want you and
your husband to uproot yourselves and move here to take care of me. I’m a grown woman, and I’m quite perfectly
capable of taking care of myself. As
for your father, he may need some help on the farm; but I’m not suggesting you
move back home to help him.”
Randy said, “We wouldn’t even offer, let
alone think of moving in with my father.”
His voice carried with it the sound of the deep and profound bitterness
he felt toward his father.
Shawn said, “We will visit you every
couple of weeks for next little while; until we feel comfortable you’re settled.”
Mom
smiled at Shawn, and said, “I appreciate your concern for me; but it really
isn’t necessary. Please give me a call
ahead of time; so I can make sure I’m home, when you get here.”
“We will,” Randy said.
Mom looked over at me, and said, “Glenn,
please don’t worry about me. I will be
fine. You are my worrier, and I don’t
need you worrying about me.”
I ducked my head. She knew me too well. I had been worried about how she would
manage on her own. I raised my eyes to
hers, and said, “I’ll try not to worry; but you have to promise to call me
every night.”
Mom laughed and said, “I don’t think I
need to call you every night, Glenn. I
will make an effort to send you a text message every day, now that you have
taught me how to send text messages.”
We had purchased Mom a new cell phone,
and had carefully gone over the instructions for its use. The memory of Mom’s excitement about the
little gizmo brought a smile to my face.
“Just don’t forget to send it, or to send empty text messages.”
Mom said, “I think I’ve got it figured
out. Just be patient with my spelling.”
Uncle Dave asked, “What time are you
leaving in the morning?”
“We need to be on the road by 6 AM,”
Shawn said.
Mom said, “It’s worth getting up early,
because it will be good to see my family.”
“I’m excited to see Uncle Corey and
Uncle Bob get married,” I said.
Mom asked, “What do you think of their
fiancés?”
“Dylan is younger than Uncle Corey; but
he’s a perfect match for Uncle Corey. I
think you’ll like Dylan, Mom,” I said.
“Uncle Bob’s fiancé, Jasper, is a former Marine, like Rick. I think they are good for each other.”
Rick agreed. “Both of them have found someone who complements
them. I’m sure they will have to learn
to live together, like any other newlywed couple.”
Mom smiled and said, “I’m sure my
brothers will have a lot of adjusting to do; since they have been single for so
long.”
“I agree that Uncle Bob may have a lot
of adjusting to do; but Uncle Corey and Dylan are already living together,” I
said.
Mom’s eyebrows raised in surprise. “I can’t believe it. They have always been so straight
laced. They were always lecturing your
Aunt Sharon and me about remaining pure and chaste.”
Rick laughed and said, “I can just see
Uncle Bob doing that; but he’s no virgin either.”
Mom’s eyes widened in astonishment as
she asked, “How do you know that?”
“Jasper told me,” Rick said, with a
grin. “Do want to know the details?”
She quickly shook her head. “I don’t need to know, thank you very much!”
We all laughed. Uncle Dave said, “I think your brothers have
finally been able to be themselves, instead of who your parents wanted them to
be, or what they thought society expected of them.”
“I think you’re right, Dave,” Mom
said. “I’m just glad Randy and Glenn
have discovered who they are, and have been able to find good men as their life
mates.”
Randy squeezed Shawn’s arm and said, “I
know I found the best man in the world to be my husband.”
I put my arm around Rick’s shoulders and
said, “I beg to differ with you, Randy.
I’m the one who found the best guy in the world.”
Mom intervened, “You both have found
wonderful men who are perfect for you.”
Aunt Mary chimed in, “And two of the
handsomest young men I’ve ever met, I might add.”
Nancy said, “I wish I could find a
handsome guy like my brothers have.”
“You will, in time, Nancy,” Mom
said. “You don’t have to rush
things. When the time is right, you
will find Mr. Right.”
Cynthia said, “I’ve been dating a pretty
nice guy since Thanksgiving. His name
is Kevin.”
Aunt Mary asked, “Is this the guy you’ve
been telling us about?”
“Yes,” she answered. “He is from Reno, Nevada, and he’s going
into nursing, just like I am.”
“Do you have photos of him,” I asked.
Cynthia said, “Yes, I do.” She pulled out her cell phone. She pulled up the photos of her boyfriend
onto the screen and handed the phone to me.
It was a photo of Cynthia and Kevin.
The photos showed a guy of medium height. He appeared to be a couple of inches taller
than Cynthia. He had short dark brown
hair and matching dark brown eyes. His
hawk-like nose was emphasized by the bushy mustache underneath it. He was smiling, flashing perfectly white
even teeth. Of course, I noticed he
looked like he lifted weights and had a nice package!
“How good of a kisser is he?” I
asked. “Doesn’t the mustache tickle?”
Cynthia blushed, but she answered my
question, “He’s a good kisser, and, yes, the mustache tickles. I want him to shave it off; but he really
likes it, because he says it makes him look older.”
I passed her cell phone along to
Rick. The phone made it around the room
and back to Cynthia. Mom asked, “When
do we get to meet your boyfriend?”
“We are thinking of coming home for
spring break,” Cynthia responded.
The conversation moved back to my
uncles’ upcoming wedding and our plans for celebrating with them. About an hour later, we left Mom’s place,
with a promise to pick her up early in the morning.
*** ***
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